Parisian Perfectionism
You’re the one.
The one everyone counts on.
Your presence alone gives people energy.
You are always available, for everything.
You would give your last dollar to buy something that would please them.
And maybe, just maybe,
You wonder if they would still call,
Still include you,
Still love you,
If just once, you said no.
But you’re too afraid to try it.
What if they don’t really love you, they just love what you do for them.
If this sounds familiar, in even one relationship in your life, you may be a Parisian Perfectionist.
Parisian Perfectionists are people pleasers to the max. They seek to be viewed as easygoing, uncomplicated and “perfectly liked” by others.
They’re great at making people feel seen and comfortable – but sometimes at the expense of their own sense of identity.
Your own sense of identity may well be enmeshed with how others view you.
Ask yourself, how would my life be different if I said no? Can I set a boundary here?
Tell yourself: “I am beautiful and worthy just as I am.” “My worthiness is not dependent on other people.”
I this bring up uncomfortable thoughts or feelings for you, it may indicate an area that you may want to curiously explore.
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With Love and Joy,
Sheila